October is National Bullying Prevention Month, making it an ideal time for libraries and schools to spotlight films that address bullying with nuance, empathy, and hope. These five films offer age-appropriate entry points for discussions about standing up to bullying, building empathy, and creating inclusive communities.
1. Wonder
Based on R.J. Palacio's beloved novel, Wonder follows Auggie Pullman, a fifth-grader with facial differences attending mainstream school for the first time. The film's greatest strength lies in its multiple perspectives, showing how bullying affects not just the victim but families, bystanders, and even the bullies themselves. Jacob Tremblay's heartfelt performance and the film's emphasis on choosing kindness over cruelty make it an excellent starting point for middle school discussions about acceptance and courage.
Best for: Grades 4-8; family programming
Discussion topics: Physical differences, bystander intervention, choosing kindness
2. Bully
Lee Hirsch's documentary provides an unflinching look at bullying in American schools, following five students and families over the course of a school year. While emotionally challenging, the film has become a cornerstone of anti-bullying education, spurring the Bully Project initiative. The documentary format allows for raw, authentic conversations about the real consequences of bullying and the failures of adults to adequately intervene.
Best for: Grades 7-12; educator professional development Discussion topics: Systemic responses to bullying, adult responsibility, peer support
3. Odd Squad: The Movie
For younger audiences, this PBS Kids spinoff film addresses social exclusion and teamwork through accessible, age-appropriate storytelling. When a rival group threatens Odd Squad, the young agents must work together and include everyone to save their organization. The film's humor and fantastical elements make serious themes digestible for elementary viewers while modeling problem-solving and inclusion.
Best for: Grades K-3; early elementary programming Discussion topics: Inclusion, teamwork, using words instead of physical responses
4. Eighth Grade (2018, R)
Bo Burnham's directorial debut authentically captures the anxiety of middle school social dynamics in the age of social media. While rated R for language, many high school programs have successfully used this film to discuss cyberbullying, social anxiety, and the performative nature of online personas. Elsie Fisher's naturalistic performance as Kayla resonates deeply with teens navigating similar challenges. Preview carefully and consider parental permissions for younger high school audiences.
Best for: Grades 9-12
Discussion topics: Cyberbullying, social media pressure, authentic self-expression
5. A Silent Voice (2016, Not Rated)
This Japanese animated film offers a sophisticated exploration of bullying's long-term consequences through the story of Shoya, a former bully seeking redemption from Shoko, the deaf classmate he tormented. The anime format shouldn't suggest this is only for animation fans; the film tackles guilt, disability discrimination, depression, and forgiveness with remarkable emotional depth. Subtitles make it accessible, though an English dub is available.
Best for: Grades 8-12; anime clubs
Discussion topics: Accountability, disability awareness, mental health, redemption
When screening these films, consider pairing them with discussion guides, bringing in school counselors or anti-bullying advocates, creating safe spaces for students to share experiences, and providing resources for students experiencing bullying. October's focus on bullying prevention offers libraries and schools an opportunity to facilitate crucial conversations, but these films remain relevant year-round as part of comprehensive social-emotional learning programs.
Remember to preview all films for your specific community and age group, secure appropriate performance rights for public screenings, and be prepared to support students who may be triggered by content that mirrors their own experiences.
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