Changed Forever: Grieving the Death of Someone You Love

“Grief is like a tunnel that closes in behind you—the only way out is through,” viewers are told in this guidance video from faith-based Paraclete Press that is short on proselytizing and long on empathy for those experiencing grief. Granted, the role of faith is explored here (along with the universal question, “How could God allow this to happen?”) in an authentic and sensitive manner, but much of the material is equally applicable to believers and non-believers. Changed Forever features interviews with people in the midst of grieving, as well as three experts in grief counseling, while offering support to those struggling with the loss of a loved one. Likely to be of some comfort is the affirmation that everyone experiences grief in a highly personal way; there is no pre-determined timeframe, style, or parameters for a “proper” grieving process. This will somewhat soothe those who are troubled by the often well-intentioned question, “Isn't it time to move on now?” The simple answer is no, not until a person is ready. Although there is no upside to grief, many report that—over time—the terrible pain becomes a “sweet sadness” that comes and goes. Also featuring a discussion guide, this is highly recommended, especially for those without similar fare such as Paraclete Press's Grieving the Sudden Death of a Loved One (VL-3/13). Aud: P. (C. Block)