I Don't Know Who You Are is a debut feature by M. H. Murray, selected for the 2023 Toronto International Film Festival. The film follows Benjamin (Mark Clennon), a Toronto musician dealing with the aftermath of a sexual assault. In a time-sensitive situation, Benjamin urgently seeks $900 for HIV-preventive PrEP treatment, navigating a challenging weekend while avoiding his new partner, Anthony (Anthony Diaz).
Based on Murray’s personal experiences, the film explores Benjamin’s internal struggles and the practical difficulties of life in Toronto without financial stability. As Benjamin reaches out to friends across the city, the narrative reveals the city’s complex social dynamics and sheds light on his escalating anxiety. Mark Clennon delivers a strong performance, embodying Benjamin’s determination and resilience in the face of adversity. I Don't Know Who You Are presents a candid portrayal of one man’s quest for survival and dignity after trauma, guided by Murray’s insightful direction and Clennon’s compelling presence on screen.
For a debut feature, I Don’t Know Who You Are is a real stunner of a film. Perhaps the only weakness in the entire movie is some poorly-written moments in the script, but in spite of these, all the actors put on a beautiful performance, really diving into their character’s motivations and actions. For every weak moment, there are 40 fantastic ones. Mark Clennon especially sells the character of Benjamin, showing us the vulnerability of a black man trying to get help, caught in the intersections of a homophobic and racist society.
Perhaps I Don’t Know Who You Are’s biggest strength is its tragedy-forward plot. Films about sexual assault (and queer films in general) tend to build to a tragedy while I Don’t Know Who You Are is all about healing, rebuilding, and surviving. Its ending is surprisingly sweet, utterly refreshing, and fulfilling for anyone who enjoys watching queer stories. Because of the subject matter, it certainly isn’t a title for everyone, but those willing and able to watch stories about sexual assault will appreciate I Don’t Know Who You Are. M. H. Murray shows immense promise as a filmmaker with his insightful direction. Highly Recommended.
Where does this film belong on public library shelves?
I Don’t Know Who You Are should be prominently featured on public library shelves dedicated to queer films and dramas. By addressing issues of sexual assault, HIV prevention, and the quest for dignity and survival, the film provides valuable insights into the lived experiences of marginalized communities. Its inclusion in these sections will not only diversify the library's collection but also offer patrons a nuanced and emotionally resonant story. Such placement ensures that the film reaches audiences who seek compelling queer narratives and contributes to a more inclusive representation in public libraries.